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Dear 16 year old me, What is it you really write when you do a ‘A letter to my 16 year old self’ This is something I would have advised you on, had I been able to go to the future or even back in time. I can not change […]

A letter to my 16 year old self


Today, marks the 10 year anniversary since I ended the relationship with the true love of my life. Let me tell you a little bit about this relationship and how it has shaped me going forward. When I was 20, I met a guy called Will*. We met through a […]

True Love


Over the course of the past year, I have had a range of online hospital appointments and remote appointments. What I can say is, I so much prefer these for a number of reasons and I am in hope that these remain after the pandemic has calmed down. They are […]

Online Hospital Appointments



I have been very busy over the course of the past few months looking for a sperm donor. The only way I can describe looking for a donor, is literally like a dating profile. Don’t forget you can follow this journey on my blog too. When picking your donor, you […]

Donor Picking vs a Dating Profile


The past few weeks have been really busy recording the in conversation with – series for podcasts and vlogs. These in conversation with – are with incredible persons. I hope for them to be a real eye opener in many ways because some of the guest I have featuring on […]

In Conversation with incredible persons


Do you ever wonder why online speed dating hasn’t worked for you? Learn the Do’s & Don’ts of online speed dating right here. In most cases you have around 3 minutes to engage in conversation with the person on your zoom screen. My advice would be as follows and can […]

Do’s & Don’ts of online speed dating!



It is hard at the moment to actually date, but with thanks to Manchester – Fast Love Speed dating they have moved all there speed dating online, using Zoom. With the breakout rooms. This is a good experience, because you can date from the comfort of your own home and […]

Manchester Fast Love Speed dating


I heard about Chester online speed dating through a good friend, an amazing neighbour. As you know, I been pretty open about my relationship status and that I am single and in hope one day, I might meet someone, and that I am looking despite the IVF. I was chatting […]

Chester Online Speed Dating


Over the course of lock down, i have been going to and from the local hospital and Leeds hospital for lots of tests. All of these tests are to ensure I am well enough to have the IVF / PGD treatment and that I will be a good mum. I […]

PGD Treatment



Hi, I am Kay. I am going through PGD (Pre Implementation Genetic Diagnosis). Hence the title designer Baby. I am ensuring that my disability is not going to be passed over to my off spring when i go through IVF as a single person. I am blogging the whole experience, […]

Pre Implementation Genetic Diagnosis